"He needs to learn how to settle her because it’s not fair that all of the responsibility is on me, and I can’t even take a freaking shower before bed."

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"But lately, she's been waking up after about 45 and crying and won't settle unless I get back in bed with her (we co-sleep) and put her on the boob."

"I also feel like he needs to learn how to settle her because it’s not fair that all of the responsibility is on me, and I can’t even take a freaking shower before bed."

"Not the asshole. He’s the asshole. It’s beyond time for him to learn how to settle her," BBGLD said.

"So many men don't realize that moms work 24/7, literally no days off, ever. Kids are a full-time job. Keeping up with errands, cooking, and cleaning is a full-time job. Unpaid labor is very real. OP's partner needs to step it TF up so that she can do the most basic of hygiene tasks, for the sake of her own physical and mental health."

"My partner and I have 2 babies together. Both babies have only wanted me. He has always been adamant that, at the very least, I should get a hot shower every night and have some time to myself. It has been the same for both babies, every night I would hand them to him, they would wake up and SCREAM until they were back on me. If I had waited to shower until they were in bed, I would be missing out on sleep, as I do all night wake-ups. I would say 'I'll go as fast as I can' and his response has always been 'Take your time, you need this for you. I've got this, [baby] is safe. Enjoy your shower.' I walk into the bathroom, and he has lit candles for me and turned out the lights so that I can relax somewhat. Baby has screamed the entire time, and he walks around the house, cuddling and talking to them the entire time, trying to calm them. He should be parenting and supporting you, not making you feel like a single parent in a relationship."