“Men ask if you’ve come, make a sad puppy face when you say no, but make no effort to rectify the situation. Women will stay up until dawn trying to get you off.”

I'm Kanksha, the Senior Content Editor for BuzzFeed India based in Mumbai.

Responses have been edited for length and clarity.

"This pretty much nails it. I've been told by a few partners that I have sex like a woman, and that's sort of what I'm after in bed as well. Whenever I've slept with men it's always been a little empty somehow. Men tend to be worse kissers, too. Do better, guys." — Inevitably_Counted

"In my experience, men are worse at kissing than women. I cannot count the number of guys I have been with who think that kissing is a test of how far they can shove their tongue down my throat. Women tend to be better, mostly because kissing tends to build up to the hot and heated level, rather than jumping there from the start. Again, gender is not a determinant of behavior, and the above tendencies are far from universal, but in my experience, they have held true often enough for me to say them for what they are: rough generalizations." — captainblackout

"Their firmness, their hardness. Even when they are gentle, there is a toughness to them. Their large bodies... I am a natural submissive, and I live for the feeling of having sex with a dominant man. They bring out this side of me, which feels natural to me, and which I can never enjoy with a woman. I never wanted to be submissive to a woman, ever. I love feeling small and girly next to my man (I am a very tall woman, so this is important to me, because it's rare), and there is no better feeling than to be wrapped up in the strong arms of a tall, broad man. And then their thrusts, their moans and grunts... their dicks...and watching them lose control and blow their loads... omg. I love everything about a male body and how it feels like. To me, it's so much more primal than having sex with a woman." — PantaRheia

"I never appreciated how much emotional space it requires to be penetrated, so much more than it requires to penetrate. For that reason I only bottom on very rare occasions, otherwise I feel too vulnerable and weak. As far as attitudes go, I find men are generally far more concerned with "pushing for more" and getting off. I bet that comes from the porn mindset, but it could be biological, too. Who knows?" —Nidman

"Also I think it’s imperative to note I am and always have been significantly overweight. I’ve always been athletic, but the area of the US in which I live pushes their young men to think overweight people are unattractive, no matter who they are. So it’s been difficult to build a relationship with a guy." — Lynkae

"I think there's a physical mouth difference in the sexes, as if women have larger/more spacious mouths to wrap around my dick; I get a lot of teeth with men. Also I'm a fan of the slow/savory BJ and girls are better at the tease. Men are better at performing analingus. These are based off of my limited experience (about 10 guys, 25 women). Women are my main preference, but a thin cute guy with a nice butt will also draw my attention." — birdthrowaway2323

"When I said "down for the count", I meant that, in my experience, the guys I've been with have not been able to continue PIV sex after they come. That DOES NOT MEAN they stop pleasuring me and making sure I'm satisfied, it means that this aspect of sex is generally over unless I want to wait 10-30 minutes for them to be physically ready again, if they even want to be!" — Anonymous