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32 Unbirthday Gifts To Buy Yourself If It’s Not Your Actual Birthday, But You Deserve A Treat
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We hope you love our recommendations! While every product is independently chosen by our editors, BuzzFeed and our publishing partners may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page. You can read more about how our affiliate partnerships work in our Editorial Standards & Ethics Guide. Because who says you can only celebrate your birth once a year? Promising review: "These are so cute and easy to assemble. Highly recommend as a fun gift to adults and kids." —Katie A. Promising review: "I’ve fallen in love with this color. It looks amazing on anyone. The lip oil is long-lasting and looks beautiful on my cheeks, too. It doesn’t dry out my lips or feel too sticky." —Jane Get it from Amazon for $27 (available in three shades). Some reviewers also say it's like getting this $65 bottle of Pink Sugar. Promising review: "Like so many, I found this scent on TikTok. I was a bit skeptical at first but finally got around to trying it. First off, this scent smells amazing! Almost every time I've worn it, I receive compliments. It has a sweet smell, almost like warm cake or sugar cookies with a hint of lemon. With such an affordable price, I would definitely recommend this to anyone curious about trying it." —Chrissy For Elementary puzzles, you need to find the suspect, location, and weapon. For Occult Medium puzzles, the added challenge is that the murderer always lies, and the other suspects tell the truth! For Hard Boiled puzzles, you also need to find a motive. And for Impossible puzzles, you have to discover all four elements and deal with the lying witness statement from the murderer. Each puzzle has a logic grid to help you keep track of the evidence. Check out a TikTok of Murdle in action. Promising review: "The puzzles are a lot of fun but the characters, story lines, and other details take the Murdle experience to another level. I have no idea how the author came up with all of this creativeness! You can Murdle solo or with friends. I look forward to future volumes but this one will keep me busy for awhile!" —Liz Gately And when you need more puzzles, check out Volume 2 for $9.51 and Volume 3 for $10.92. Promising review: "I absolutely love these sunglasses! They suit my face beautifully and elevate any look with their stylish design. The gold details on the sides are such a stunning touch — reminiscent of high-end Miu Miu sunglasses but at a fraction of the cost. They’re lightweight, comfortable, and feel durable. I’ve received so many compliments already. Highly recommend these for anyone looking to add a chic accessory to their collection!" —Arsalan sheikh Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (available in five styles and in two or three packs). Sayso is a small woman-owned business that specializes in the first-ever cocktail tea bag, perfect for cocktails *and* mocktails. Promising review: "I was a bit skeptical when I purchased, but these are actually fantastic. The taste is great and the bags make it incredibly easy to mix up what would otherwise be complex cocktails quickly and easily. I've had the spicy marg, espresso martini, and old fashioned versions, and while they aren't exactly the same as the original they are wonderful for making yourself a cocktail at home. Highly recommend." —Meredith Get a pack of eight from Amazon for $16.99 (available in seven other cocktail styles, in skinny versions, combo packs and a variety pack). Promising review: "I first saw this book on TikTok and decided to look more into it. I purchased four total because I know some people are holding onto things that are difficult to let go of. It’s a great way to look at things from a different perspective and truly hold yourself accountable for different things in your life. I love what it stands for, and I look forward to when I burn mine after I’m done. Self-love, self-care, and meditation for a better state of mind tomorrow are always the goal. I definitely recommend it to those susceptible to change and the willingness to try things differently." —Brent Helm This book is a kind of DIY memoir — it goes through three phases of "Early," "Middle," and "Later" years, and has 201 different prompts based on your memories, experiences, and views on the world. This also makes for a lovely gift for family members, so you can all preserve each other's memories! Promising review: "When the day of my demise arrives, I probably won't have much in the way of cash or valuable material goods to bestow on my loved ones. The ridiculous life I've lived has left me with a bit of an income shortage. However, the memories I've got tucked away in my head are plentiful and colorful. It's my hope that this book, once filled, will be the most desirable item in the stuff that my kids get to sift through. I would have LOVED to get something like this from several of my now-deceased relatives. Speaking from the perspective of someone who purchased this book, I have nothing but good things to say. Well, that's not entirely true. There's one thing that I would change about it, if given the chance: It would have been PERFECT if the pages were slightly larger. A little more space in which to write would be great. Then again, the size of the pages, as-is, is probably what keeps me from rambling. It forces the writer to get straight to the point and stick to the meaty parts. I'm really enjoying myself, overall." —Can't Tame Me Promising review: "I love these! These add the cutest touch to any outfit. They make you feel better about wearing a hair tie on your wrist. And they function great as both a hair tie and a bracelet! Not too tight to wear as either. Love them!" —Tiara Scheurell Get a set of 20 from Amazon for $6.79+ (available in eight styles). The kit comes with three different numbered canvas designs, seven paint pots, a mini brush, and an easel. Promising review: "I have to admit I was skeptical because of the price and size. However, I got these for my husband for his birthday (he loves Bob Ross) and what a find!! We had so much fun mixing colors and painting. Would definitely recommend. The fact that they are small makes them even more special. I wish there were more to paint!" —slb m Promising review: "I have been searching for a brown mascara, and this is it! It’s the best mascara I have used in a long time. Goes on easily without clumping. Lifts and separates my lashes. I’m so happy with it! I set up a subscribe and save so I don’t run out!" —jeanielemo "I bought the latte brown and really like the look of it. Black mascara looks costume-ish on me. This color has a softer, more natural look on me. Thought it was worth a go and am not disappointed." —Garden Girl Get it from Amazon for $9.97 (available in five shades). Note: According to the Mayo Clinic, up to 400mg of caffeine is safe for most healthy adults. Check out a TikTok of the Deathwish Instant Coffee in action. Death Wish Coffee is a small business that specializes in coffee pods, grounds, whole beans, and more. Promising review: "So let me start by saying that this coffee is delicious and works if you’re someone like me who wants to stay awake. I work night shifts at a hospital, and in the mornings, when I get home, I’m quite tired and sleepy. I made myself a cup of coffee and waited for it to work. Now let me tell y’all!!! This coffee kept me awake for hours!! BOY, WAS I WOWED INDEED … best believe I went ahead and ordered three more boxes. This is now my to-go coffee if I need a BOOST!!!!!! If you like coffee and want to stay awake, then BUY THIS COFFEE!!! I’m happy I no longer have to take naps to get re-energized." —nancy Get a pack of eight from Amazon for $11.99. Here's what BuzzFeeder Elizabeth Lilly has to say about this: "I'm obsessed with this! It's what I'm currently using because my skin has become so dry because I'm on Accutane. And the cast-iron heat in my apartment sure doesn't help. This oil foams up on my loofah ASAP, and my skin looks and feels more moisturized than with any other body washes or shower oils. Also, as with all SDJ scents, it smells divine." Promising review: "This is a beautiful scent. My skin pulls the floral aspect of this fragrance. It lathers well and made my skin very moisturized coming out the shower (which is great, in my opinion, because I have extremely sensitive dry skin). I ordered a small jar to try it out, and now I want the larger size." —LaKeya Get it from Amazon for $12+ (available in three sizes). Promising review: "Stunning! I have been seeing a lot of fun drinkware at stores recently. However, the glass is always paper thin and looks to fragile to be used. So, I gave these ones a try. Yes, these are it! The glass is thick, the stem is sturdy, the colors are fun, and the shape is interesting. I am obsessed. You'll find me sipping my lemon water out of these from now on!" —Raya C. Get a set of two from Amazon for $21.99 (available in two styles). And! It even has a built-in measuring cup you can use as a butter-warming tray. Also if you are obsessed with the flavor of movie theater popcorn, you've got to try this delicious buttery popcorn seasoning, too! Promising review: "Everyone needs one. This makes the best popcorn. It is so easy to use and so fast. And it is healthy for you so that is a plus." —Kate Get it from Amazon for $20.63+ (available in four colors). Promising review: "This is one of my favorite pairs of jeans. I have been looking for something in this fit for some time now. I am usually a 32, and quite curvy, which causes waist gaps in most jeans. So I ordered the 32 and 33. They both fit quite well. I went with the 33 because it’s longer and more roomy around my hips, and gives me the baggy fit I wanted. The cinch waist allowed me to tighten the waist. It really is perfect, and I just ordered this in another color." —Peace Get them from Amazon for $51.68+ (available in women's sizes 24–34 and four regular denims and four non-stretch denims). Promising review: "My best friend loved this for her birthday. She loves Halloween and tea, and this was such a cute and perfect gift." —Harley Nixon Promising review: "Another stellar puzzle from Magic Puzzle Company, featuring high-quality pieces, a hidden final image, and a unique solving experience. The artwork is full of detail, making it an immersive and engaging build. The pieces fit together snugly, with no puzzle dust, and the final reveal adds an element of surprise. If you’re looking for a high-quality puzzle that’s more than just a standard jigsaw, this one is worth every penny." —Baloptimus Get it from Amazon for $24.99 (and make sure you check out their other fun assortment of Magic Puzzles for more options!). Touchland is a small business that specializes in hydrating hand sanitizers and body and hair mists. BuzzFeed Shopping writer Emma Lord says about these: "Touchland sent me samples of all of the scents in the Power Essence line, and I've truly never been more impressed by body mists. I'm not a big perfume wearer because I am incredibly picky and find a lot of scents too overpowering, or detect something ~off~ about the way they settle that I can't explain. But this collection of lightweight, scrumptious, and creative scents was just full of hit after hit. Peachy Lychee is my absolute favorite right now because it just feels like it bottled up the smell of happiness. Every time I put it on, I get a lil' spring in my step!! (But vanilla-loving friends — you do NOT want to sleep on the Vanilla Velvet scent, either!)" Get it from Amazon for $20 (available in eight scents). And if you love the look of the tennis bracelet with it, Pavoi has a super affordable tennis bracelet for $17.95+ on Amazon! Promising review: "I absolutely love this watch! The crystal‑accented markers give it a beautiful sparkle that goes with both casual and dressy outfits. The bracelet is comfortable and adjustable, and the Japanese quartz movement keeps accurate time. It feels more expensive than it is and gets compliments every time I wear it." —Yailen Get it from Amazon for $17.74+ (available in 12 styles). Promising review (for Strawberry Sprinkles): "Love! Love! Love this product! It makes my lips feel super moisturized and is a lovely shade of pink! It makes my lips look glossy and has pigment, but not too much. The applicator is ingenious! It makes the product so easy to apply! Overall I'm very satisfied and excited to keep using this product!" —Sarina1022 Get it from Amazon (available in seven regular shades and two shimmer shades) or Sephora (available in nine regular shades and two shimmer shades) for $22. Promising review: "So soft and fitted to my feet. Probably going to get other colors very soon. Love an easy slip-on that’s affordable." —Bran fish Get them from Amazon for $21.99+ (available in women's sizes 6–11 and dozens of colors). Promising review: "I wear this going on walks or elevating an outfit to run errands. The side pocket is perfect to fit my phone or wallet. Very comfortable, especially in the spring/summer! Packs well for trips. It’s a staple in my closet. Great quality for the price." —Jamie Get it from Amazon for $29 (available in women's sizes XS–XXL and 30 colors). Ban.do is a US-based small business that specializes in quirky accessories, home products, and stationery. Promising review: "Such a cute cowgirl boot. I put my makeup brushes in it on my vanity and it’s so cute. All of my friends want one now! Definitely recommend." —Jerrett Each set comes with a 100-color palette, a sketch pencil, a sponge, a swatch sheet, and three water brush pens. Promising review: "Love collecting watercolor sets, and this one is amazing — so many exquisite colors to paint with. Creativity is everything, and imagination with all these colors is unlimited. Pure happiness!" —pve Get it from Amazon for $17.99+ (available in four other sets). Promising review: "You can’t go wrong with the Icon glassware. Perfect-sized, beautiful, and having some weight to it, I love to gift these as housewarming gifts to friends and family." —EmPars Get it from Anthropologie for $16 (available in seven styles). Promising review: "This stuff is not only nostalgic in flavor, style, and smell but this has truly healed my lips. My lips are always so dry and I get little pieces of skin, but this has made my lips completely normal again. This is also a fantastic mood booster for me. I can be having an overwhelming day at work and put this on and the fragrance and flavor just takes me back and boost my mood! " —Tina Laray Bessler Get it from Amazon for $4.99 (available in Strawberry, Peach, Grape, and Watermelon). Psst — a lot of reviewers use silicone or plastic molds to get specific shapes! Promising review: "It’s honestly just a really nice material to work with! If you want to create things with clay, this is definitely a good choice! It’s definitely not for professional use, but I feel like that’s a given? I mean, it is Crayola. But all in all, great for those who want to use it for fun!" —Amazon Customer Promising review: "I am OBSESSED with this cutting board. It is made so well and looks so expensive. Every time I have guests, I will use it as serving tray or display for charcuterie and I always get compliments on it." —Lorrin Farrell Promising review: "I love this top. I am a 6'1" girly. So finding things with sleeves long enough (and not baggy on my torso) is very difficult. Great quality for price, comfortable, and so cute!" —E. Talloran Get it from Amazon for $9.49 (available in women's sizes XS–XL and 11 colors). Promising review: "These are amazing!!! Beautiful colors and the sparkle/shimmer is more than I imagined it would be. Mr. Pen did it again! If you don’t have these pens, you need to get them!! Great addition to my journaling supplies!" —FBJH12 Get a set of eight from Amazon for $5.99 (also available in three other color sets). Promising review: "Good gift. Got these for my wife for her basement bar. They're cute on the pub table and great conversation pieces." —MJ * 16 Things We've Tried, Loved, And Think You Will, Too * These 39 Products Are Ridiculously Adorable And Looking For Their Forever Home * If Your Whole Dang Personality Is “Spring,” Then You’ll Probably Wanna Grab A Few Of These 32 Things * These 31 Products Are So Cool, Just *Looking* At Them Might Shake Up Your Whole Algorithm * Just 36 Fun Things To Buy Yourself Because Online Shopping Exists And You’re Only Human * If You Have $15 And You’re In The Mood For A New Skincare Treat, Check Out These 27 Reviewer-Favorite Finds Plus, finds from Anthropologie, Bauble Bar, Etsy, the Disney Store, Free People, and Walmart. Reviews have been edited for length and/or clarity. BuzzFeed Shopping is service journalism first: our writers and editors spend all day shopping so you don’t have to, vetting products, fact-checking brand claims, and surfacing what actually helps in real life. We center readers over revenue, recommend products with authenticity (using real experiences, not ad-speak), and reflect our diverse audience, inclusive of a variety of price points, people, and needs. We cut through fake deals, favor useful info over glossy fluff, and recommend both budget and splurge options with context so you can decide what’s right for you — and still have a little fun along the way. Daysha Edewi is a resident writer on the BuzzFeed Shopping team, and she can't believe that she gets to search the internet to help you find the best, most unique, life-changing products for her job.