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Jiu-Jitsu, Restaurant Jobs, And 15 Other Jobs And Hobbies That People Swear Are MAJOR Red Flags For Relationships
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“You have to apologize to your partner that literally everything you had planned for the next year has changed in about 10 minutes.” —Slow-Rutabaga-7241 and SeasonPositive6771 "I left my ex-husband because of his obsession with video games. He would stay up until 4 a.m. gaming, but couldn’t feed our newborn? Oh, and he burned our house down because he was gaming and forgot he was cooking. He didn't get into video games until we were engaged, and it just escalated to a dangerous level." "A lot of the people who retired during my time there either died very quickly after or came back to work part-time. They spent all their time working and didn't build relationships or lives outside of work." "I currently live 400 miles from my partner. I genuinely don’t even notice his absence. When we lived together, I pretty much just lived my own life anyway, going to bed alone, and waking up to see there was someone in bed next to me." —camusthenarwhal and Creative_Addendum667 Disclaimer: Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.